The Sonoma Table
Les Dames d’Escoffier Sonoma County
Newsletter September/October 2024
The quality of being thankful; a readiness to show appreciation and to return kindness.
I am humbled, as a new member of Les Dames Sonoma, to write this article on gratitude. Let me begin. Before being accepted as a Dame, I learned that Les Dames d’Escoffier International (LDEI) is the only worldwide philanthropic society of professional women in culinary, fine beverage and hospitality. As a philanthropic organization, LDEI is the essence of gratitude. We are in the business of giving gifts of “time, talent and treasure” to help make life better for other people. Now that I’m a Dame (and I love that label), I can already see that our members are busy people, with full lives, thriving businesses, and no shortage of things to do. My mother worked hard and was a great role model for me; she taught me about making time to give back. It was part of her work ethic. And that is one of the reasons I wanted to be a part of Les Dames; to follow in my mother’s footsteps and to join others who embrace giving back.
To prepare for writing this article, we surveyed our membership asking how everyone practices gratitude. Here’s what we heard.
Why are you grateful to be in LDEI?
In general, we said that LDEI offers its members the opportunity to be surrounded by dynamic, successful, and talented women.
Dame Melissa Smith (Enotrias Elite Sommelier Services) said “It’s an honor to be at the same table with such talented women.”
Dame Doralice Handel (Locals Tasting Room) echoed that by expressing her appreciation for women leaders “who pay kindness and generosity forward.”
Dame Virginie Boone (Wine Writer) expressed her “love of the sense of community and camaraderie, the shared sense of purpose, and the range of experience and expertise.”
“I’m grateful for Dame Sheana Davis for bringing me into the fold. Sheana has made me feel welcome and included; every woman I have met through Les Dames has exuded that welcoming energy,” shared Dame Ronda Brittian (Ronda’s Fine Foods).
“I don't know of any other group of its kind. I consider myself lucky to be part of it,” concluded Dame Lisa Stavropoulos (Greek Grape Wine Tours).
Has there been a moment as a Dame that you are grateful for?
Doralice cited “the friendships I’ve made through Les Dames and the openness of the organization” is what strikes her the most. Virginie was very grateful for having a part in recognizing Anamarie Morales who won a Legacy Award through Les Dames, which delighted her because the award was so well deserved. Dame Elizabeth Smith (Freelance Journalist) is “most grateful for the moment I was inducted, with Dame Betsy Nachbaur by my side. What an honor.”
And, Lisa said there hasn’t necessarily been one moment, but rather “a series of moments, especially when I was able to bring a group of Dames to Greece and show them the hospitality and food & wine treats that they had never before experienced.” Melissa’s favorite moment was “watching the MFK Fisher documentary with fellow Dames.”
What is it about harvest that makes you grateful?
The smells, sights and sounds of the season resonated with everyone. “The smell of wine fermenting, seeing the leaves turn, and seasonal sweets” were mentioned by Melissa. Doralice talked about the “sounds of tractors beeping, the scent of fermentation on the crush pad, and the fading afternoon light along with the stories of the people who make the harvest happen.” Dame Susan Idell (Idell Family Vineyards) loves “sharing the abundance of food, family, and friends in such a beautiful place as Sonoma during this time of year.”
Dame Barbara Gorder (Undisclosed Location) talked poetically about the harvest season. “The Harvest Season is a feeling. The season turns, and we have vintners preparing to create their best work so we can enjoy being together over a good glass. Vintners are exceptional because everything they do leads to what I call a ‘Year in a Glass.’"
Virginie noted that “During Covid, harvest time made me feel like the world might be okay. The change of season provides a sense of continuity.” Elizabeth added, “Harvest is the end result, the culmination of hard work, and so far we’ve had a wonderful season made better without the devastating fires.”
And finally, how do you practice gratitude?
Doralice, who has done so much for LDEI while coping with a painful bone condition said she is “grateful for every day that I am alive and every day that I can stand, walk, sit and volunteer; giving back gives me joy.” Several Dames talked about at the end of every day reviewing the top things and the closest people in their lives for whom they are grateful. Dame Serena Lourie (Cartograph Wines) says she practices gratitude by “liberally saying thanks and recognizing people for their efforts”. She added that her winery, a B corp., actively participates in philanthropic measures for the arts, mental health and the unhoused.
And finally, Susan said “I do not practice this enough, and I am working toward changing that.” Susan is not alone. Many of us have the goal of regularly practicing intentional gratitude. Hopefully reflecting on some of these messages will inspire others to do just that.
I am grateful for your time and input in helping me write this article. I learned a lot. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
—Written by Dame Cheryl Quist
Member Spotlight: Dame Susan Kornblatt Idell
Dame Susan Kornblatt Idell has taken an unusual route into the wine industry. Susan has lived in California for 50 years, but her grandmother was a cook and her grandfather first entered the food and wine business as a server in the “Borscht Belt” of Kosher resorts in New York. Eventually the family ran hugely successful bakeries in Brooklyn, where Susan grew up.
Susan attended Boston University, graduated from San Francisco State University, studied French at the University of Montreal, and then spent five good years as a “ski bum” in Vermont and in Tahoe. Then Susan earned her MA in Art Therapy from San Francisco State, taught art in a nursing home, and (of course) developed curricula in gerontology at UCSF and for On Lok Senior Health Services in San Francisco. As a friend, I remember her deep commitment to caring for both her mother and stepmother as they neared the end of their lives.
In 1970 she went to a party at a friend’s house in Berkeley and met a guy named Richard Idell, who became a super entertainment lawyer and smartly bought a secret house in Bolinas way back in 1976. A while later, in 1988, Susan and Richard got married and lived in San Francisco for almost 20 years, then Mill Valley for another 20 years, and eventually migrated north (like many of us) to Sonoma Valley in 2010. As they approached our wine country, their goal was to find a couple of acres for a home overlooking other people’s vineyards.
The Idells found a slightly rocky piece of property on the west side of Sonoma Valley and “made the mistake of falling in love with it,” according to Susan. It turned out to fall under the Williamson Act for farmers on what had been the original Carriger estate. The Williamson Act, also known as the California Land Conservation Act (1965), preserves and protects agricultural land, and provides taxation on land as agricultural property and not higher for its development potential.
Sonoma County would allow them to plant grapes or olives, so they chose grapes. Steve Matthiasson joined them as vineyard partner resulting in their Michael Mara Chardonnay vineyard and their Oscar Syrah vineyard, the latter named for Susan’s father. Richard Idell surprised himself by catching the winemaking bug, oversees the vineyard, and loves meeting other people in the business.
Now as Proprietor and CEO of Idell Family Vineyards, Susan manages the business end including sales, grape contracts, compliance, bottling, marketing, and their enormous and widespread “wine philanthropy,” as she calls it. While they do sell their wines through restaurants, they are also known for donating generous pours at their favorite non-profits’ fundraising events throughout San Francisco and the North Bay, including Les Dames d’Escoffier.
While all of this was going on, Susan was elected in 2020 to and still serves on the Board of Directors of Sonoma Valley Hospital District, has hosted tasting conferences where winemakers who use Idell grapes share tastings and information, organized roundtables for Women for WineSense and served on their national board of directors, served on the Sonoma County Area Agency on Aging Advisory Council as well as on many distinguished panels and organizations on gerontology. In whatever free time she has, she also cans and makes tasty treats that she gifts to friends with beautifully designed labels attached.
We are all lucky to have Susan Kornblatt Idell with us as a distinguished Dame. Thank you, Susan, for all you do!
—Written by Dame Kathleen Thompson Hill
Upcoming Events and Reminders
September 15-October 15: Hispanic Heritage Month
October 8: Member Meeting, 5:30pm-8pm, Dragonfly Floral, Healdsburg. Don’t forget to RSVP!
October 10: Julia’s Table, Mezzeluna, 5pm-7pm, Cotati
October 13: LDEI-SF Third Annual DEI in the Food & Wine Industry Celebration and Education Luncheon, 9:30am-2:30pm, Petaluma. Get tickets here!
October 17-20: LDEI Annual Conference, Phoenix, AZ
October 26: Pine Cone Foundation’s The Journey from Ranch to Plate workshop and event, 12:30-5:30pm, Petaluma. Get tickets here!
November 9: Sonoma Family Meal’s Annual Knife’s Edge “Taste the World” Global Cuisine Showdown & Tasting, 5:30pm-9pm, Sonoma County Fairgrounds. Come support Dame Whitney Reuling and her amazing Sonoma Family Meal family! Get tickets here!
October 3rd- Gibson Thomas
October 11th- Serena Lourie
October 12th- Kathleen Thompson Hill